August Adventures – The Proposal
August has been quite the busy month. Lots of travel, lots of adventures, lots of firsts…
The fourth weekend of the month didn’t involve much travel, but was no less busy than the previous three. I’ll get right to it…
We’re engaged!
Yes, my friends, I popped the question to Kristy Saturday night and was blessed to receive a “Yes” in response (amongst the sobbing and giggles). Now the adventure really begins!
Here’s how it went down:
As the phrase goes, “the best laid schemes of mice and men go oft awry”
I had hoped to get a reservation for one of her favorite lunch spots, Flag Fork Garden Café, but unfortunately they were booked up, so we instead had lunch at Stella’s Kentucky Deli, a small but good restaurant that uses local meats and produce in its offerings. Neither of us had eaten at the deli before, so it was a first, and we both enjoyed the food. After finishing lunch, we went to visit one of her friends, then stopped off at Sonic for refreshing lime-ades (yay, happy hour!).
At this point, my proposal plans began in earnest. I had made special geocache pages that would share part of the story of our first date at each location. Earlier that day, I had placed an unofficial geocache at O’Charley’s, the site of our first date. I also wanted to put a cache at “God Golf” (nickname for the putt-putt course at Lexington Ice Center) as well as Cold Stone Creamery, both of which were first date destinations, but unfortunately ran out of time.
Once our thirst was quenched from the lime-ades, I gave her the printed out cache page, handed her the GPS and she navigated me to the restaurant. After a minute of looking, she found it. When she originally saw the cache page and realized where it was hidden, she started suspecting something was up. However, as she told me later, after she found the cache, saw the container was empty except for a blank log and realized this was the only cache I had placed, she dismissed her thoughts that a proposal was coming. Though I had wanted to place the other caches, it was good that it didn’t work out – I would be able to surprise her after all!
With the geocache found, we headed back to her house and worked on our scrapbook for a while. It was about a year ago that I first prepared her a candlelight dinner and presented her with a scrapbook, materials and mementos I had been collecting. Over the course of the last year, we’ve saved items from our various activities and adventures to include in the scrapbook and occasionally created pages along the way (we’re a little behind on that, though). We worked on a page for a while, then as dinner time approached, I started fixing her favorite meal (as close as I could, at least) and setting up for another romantic candlelight dinner. I wanted to step it up this time, so I disappeared into the bathroom and emerged dressed in a suit, then asked her to change into her favorite dress while I put out some flowers, balloons and the meal.
What else goes along with dinner? A show of course.
I had written a poem, titled The Tale of Princess Pepper, about a princess abducted by a dragon and saved by a knight. I brought props, such as a tiara, a sword and a stuffed dragon, and “acted” it out as I read. I know, cheesy, but she’s a princess and I wanted to give her a fairy tale experience! At this point, she started crying but still didn’t think a proposal was coming.
After the show, I presented her with three scrapbook pages I had put together. One was a listing of all the things we have done together since our first meeting; the second page was an email a friend sent me in 2006, three years before we met, in which my friend said she met my future wife (more on this later); and the third page consisted of images of the ring and a proposal message in word magnets (which I had used before to write different messages on her fridge). As I handed the last page to her with very shaky hands, I got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. Somewhere in between the sobs and the giggles, she said Yes!
Knowing how important her family and friends are to her, over the preceding week I had contacted some that live in the area and asked them to meet us at her house for a reception, with cake and ice cream, after the proposal so she could share the moment with those close to her. Though it was last minute, several were able to make it out and share in Kristy’s special day!
Here are pictures of the ring (which is fully paid for!):
It still feels so surreal! The adventures are just beginning, and I look forward to all that God has in store for us in the future!
So ends this chapter of our story. The next chapter is to be written, but first, time to write a prequel.
The story of our meeting is a great one. I love to tell it and will…in another blog post.













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